Trust the process

 its a strange thing knowing you're going to fail...... 

At 19 , i thought i had no time..... to move ahead , to fall in love , to grow old , to trust again

but god had different plans 

Now, i understand how fragile life really is. Every single day is a gift, not a guarantee.

i am not writing this to scare you. I, 'm writing this to remind you.

stop stressing over little things . Be kind to your body move it, nourish it , stop criticizing it . One day you'll wish you had appreciated it.

last year it was way to rough to me i never talked about it to anyone only i know what it was ,but i feel right to talk about it now when i am happy again or should i say i am the happiest version of myself today ...i went through shit , i had several panic attacks i end up in a hospital it was that bad i used to cry down on my knees hiding from family so they don't worry i didn't realize that i am losing myself and i did lost myself i was questioning my worth , i was heartbroken, that i was just overthinking everything, my family my friends still had no idea what was happening to me ,untill one day they noticed i was shivering i couldn't move that night i had panic attacks i still remember the date it was 14 may 2025 i will never let anyone make me feel like that way ever again but nobody knows why i was that sick and they still don't know the actual reason behind it that i was being lied i was being hurt ...i still don't feel good to share it but i wanted to... so here i am but those things taught me a lot , somethings i do regret ,a lot of things i had done just to keep the relationship and i absolutely hate myself for that. BUT today i am changed i am living my best life i am loving myself more and feel myself again , i feel strongest again and I am finally surrounded by the people who loves me unconditionally and hate to see me crying or giving up on myself.

so spend less time chasing "stuff" - more time making memories for yourself , don't skip moments with people you love.

laugh more, write a note , tell someone you love them.

complain less , give more , helping others brings more joy than anything you can buy.

be present , show up- really show up , put efforts in everything you love 

you don't need to have it all figured out. you don't need a perfect body , or a perfect live but definitely a peaceful one. 

just follow what makes your heart light up. say no to what drains you . make changes when you need to.

today i am able to share this with you is because i never gave up on myself today i am healed , strong , confident and definitely full of love again and weird too haha .....

go outside, look at the sky, dance a bit , feel the sun 

just be....

thankyou for reading this, live your life well

-archi💗 


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